I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure.

I have the most indecisive friends ever. It wouldn't be bad if I could make a decision, but I can't. I have realized lately that not one of my friends ever says that they want to do something. They simply shrug their shoulders and push the decision on me. It irritates me like no other thing in the world. I end up making the decisions as to where we go, what we do, how we get there, and who's all going. I understand maybe once in awhile letting me decide on what to do, but not EVERY TIME. I have expressed my frustration many times, since it makes me feel like a mother pushing her kids to do something. My friends just don't listen. Now whenever I ask what they want to do, I will ask them again and again until the give me an answer. And just saying "I don't know" won't work. I would like to find some other people that aren't afraid to be the leader and step up. All my life I've had the mellow/follower personality and it makes me anxious being in charge. If I wanted to be and event planner I would have signed up for it.